If you feel like crying every time you think about your ex, first let me say that I’ve been there before. Not only will this pass… if you use the advice on this page, you have a very good chance of getting your ex back if there was anything real there to begin with!
You probably realize that you may not be going about it the right way… and that’s okay… I can remember times when I knew that I wasn’t doing or saying the right things, but I couldn’t slow down and think because my heart was just too broken…
But… that actually brings me to the point of this article. Sometimes, over thinking can HURT you. It can especially work against you when you act on it, and turn to logic or reasoning to try and get your ex to come back to you.
Now you’re a smart person, and that’s why you try and tackle this problem in a logical way.
But as time goes on and on, and our species changes and evolves, one law holds constant.
You cannot CONVINCE someone to feel something!
Your ex lover did NOT fall in love with you because you executed a stunning display of logic that Socrates himself would envy!
No, far more likely is that your ex fell in love with you because of how you made them FEEL.
I’ve never met anyone who would argue this point, yet when faced with a scary break-up, a situation that should heighten our emotional senses more than anything else…
For some reason, we have a tendency to enact the logical section of our brain and try to CONVINCE our ex to take us back.
A great many people who are going through a break-up have already made this critical mistake, and hurt their chances of getting back together in the process.
But do not lose hope! Reversing any damage already done is easy; all you have to do is STOP saying the wrong things, and START saying the right things.
Sounds simple enough, right?
Moving along… I’m sure that you have a basic understanding of the concept of the different parts of the brain. Let’s simplify things and call them the “Logical Brain” and the “Emotional Brain.”
These two different parts of the brain act independently of one another. It’s very difficult for people to use both at once. So, when you engage one, you usually disengage the other.
Are you with me?
Now, here’s the catch. When you and your ex got together… it was most likely the doing of your Emotional Brains. HOWEVER…
When your ex no longer wants to be with you, it is usually the work of the Logical Brain!
Your ex probably made up their mind that they no longer wanted to be together.
So when you try to convince your ex that you should be together, by listing off all the reasons it makes sense, how things aren’t that bad, how they’re going to get better, how things will change, etc….
…you’re basically reinforcing their Logical Brain, activating the same thoughts and LOGIC that made them want to separate in the first place.
Instead, you need to recall how, in these hard times, to speak in certain ways that will activate their EMOTIONAL Brain. They still have feelings for you that can be awakened; a strong love is not easy to shake.
But that’s only half the story. You also need to know how to deactivate their Logical Brain.
Now that you know the basics of it, what you most likely need is a blueprint, or guide to take you by the hand and tell you exactly what to say.
It can be hard to get your head clear when you’re going through a hard break-up. I know. So don’t be afraid or ashamed to seek help. It’s great what you’re doing.
In fact, it’s very intelligent. The more wrong things you do or say, the more you hurt your chance of getting your ex back for good.
For a comprehensive, full-length guide with a step-by-step follow through plan for getting your ex back… see the page below.
And remember… don’t try to convince them! It’s about making them FEEL, not making them think!
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