I think that deep down, most people realize that if they simply moved on with their life for a significant amount of time, they would have a better shot at starting things "fresh" with their ex. Tricks like the "No Contact Rule" are even more effective when taken to extremes. But that doesn't help the person who wants to get their ex back fast.
To get your ex back fast, you have to accomplish two things:
1) You must re-awaken the dormant feelings that they have for you -- they must feel as excited to be with you as they did the first day you got together!
2) Mistakes that people often make when trying to get back with their ex must be avoided at all costs.
This is where it gets tricky, because when we are the most vulnerable (such as after a break up) is when we most often make rash decisions that could be bad for us. And nowhere is this more true than with trying to get your ex to come back to you.
When you're in an upset emotional state, following a concrete plan against your strongest instincts isn't the exactly the easiest thing in the world. But if you really feel that your relationship ended too early and would like another shot, I'd like to help you out. I want to give you a short plan to follow to maximize your chances of getting that special someone to come back as soon as possible.
Please note, that even if you do everything right, there is no way to repair a relationship that is truly over.
That said, in my experience with helping people out on this website and through my newsletter for the last few years, it seems that most relationships that still have a chance can be fixed, and fixed quickly.
What do I mean by "fixed"? Well, I mean restored to the way they were when the two of you met. Things can feel like the beginning again.
So what should you do right now? Well, the first step is to actually make sure that you are not currently making any of these 3 mistakes that I find many of my readers making:
1) Even if you are extremely desperate, do NOT show this to your ex.
A break up can leave you feeling like your whole world is over and you can't think about anything but getting back together again. But if you REALLY want to maximize your chances, you absolutely cannot display your "natural" behavior to your ex right now.
If you feel that there's nothing you can do to show your desperation, then you must stop contact with your ex for a short time. Afraid that if you do this they will move on completely or even find someone else? Don't be.
With what I'm going to show you at the end there's a very good chance that you can get them back fast enough that they won't have time to start anything serious with anyone else. Remember, they're most likely hurting too, whether they're the type to show it or not.
2) Don't try to "guilt" your ex into feeling something
People tend to try to distance themselves from things or people that make them feel negatively. Even if you are convinced that what you are saying is true, and you just want your ex to realize their part in why you haven't worked out so far, verbalizing this to them will just put more distance between the two of you.
Just remember when you first got together. Were there any heavy or stressful issues between you? Probably not many. And that is the key to having a healthy relationship that flourishes -- you must be the source of positivty for your ex.
3) You must realize that you are irrational in your current state
After a break up, just about any "plan" you think of on your own to get your ex back will probably just hurt your chances. Trust me, I've been there. Your own brain can be your worst enemy when you're upset.
Think back on most of the things you've said or done to people that you now regret. Were you emotionally upset (sad or angry) at the time? I'll bet you were.
But there's something you can do about it. You just need a step-by-step plan that you can follow, and you need to stick with it. I can help you out with that.
How do I know? Over the years I've received quite a few "thank yous" for the plan I recommend in my newsletter. It doesn't work for everyone, but if you really, really want your ex back fast and are willing to do what it takes, then I truly believe that this is your best shot.
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P.S. Remember -- you attracted your ex in the first place, and you can do it again. You've already proven that you have it in you. Now all you need is a blueprint to help you attract them again. I hope my get ex back tips have helped give you a little hope. I'll see you inside the Get Ex Back Club.