Getting your ex back with no contact may seem counter intuitive at first, so let me explain what this rule is for those who haven't heard of it.
In a nutshell, the "no contact rule" is a guideline that dictates that you should not contact your ex for a predetermined amount of time, usually ranging from a few weeks to even a couple of months. The premise behind this rule is that creating physical distance between your ex and yourself allows for several things to happen.
Before I get into what the no contact rule accomplishes or answer the question of whether or not no contact really works to get your ex back, I want to address a common point of confusion with this rule.
The no contact rule is that you should not initiate contact with your ex.
I italicized initiate to try and make it stand out. Many people are confused about the no contact rule. If your ex is the one contacting you, then it is not a breach of the rule to communicate.
For example, let's say you're abiding by the no contact rule, and your ex gives you a call. You do not have to ignore the call. You can pick up the phone without violating the rule. In fact, when your ex is the one contacting you, you have a lot of power in that moment whether you realize it or not. If your ex is at the point where they are contacting you then you CAN get them back.
It is, however, a delicate situation. What you say to your ex during contact after a break up is of the utmost importance, but that is outside the scope of this article. If you need specific help on how to get your ex back, then you should join the Get Ex Back Club by clicking here and following my recommendations.
Moving along, let me get back to the important questions: what does the no contact rule do, and does it even work?
Basically, the no contact rule actually accomplishes quite a few things.
Firstly, and perhaps most importantly, is that after a break up you are emotionally vulnerable and suspectible to acting needy and insecure. If you don't already know it, these traits naturally repel attraction (especially in women), and your ex is no exception. Speaking with your ex while you are an emotional wreck can possibly be the most dangerous thing you can do, and will only serve to drive them further away and see you as more and more of a "friend" every day.
The second thing it does is it makes your ex start to wonder and think about you. People are attracted to mystery. When you were a big part of your ex's life, if you suddenly start to fade away, do you think they can help but wonder what you're up to? NO! And this is a little psychological trick. The more your ex thinks about you, the more they are "casting a spell" on themselves. They will become "obsessed" with you all over again.
And finally, in the meantime while you are not contacting your ex, you can use that time to build up and launch a strategy. The type of strategy that I can recommend for you. I know of powerful psychological methods that will not only get your ex back, but make them be the ones making all of the moves to get back with you.
But here's the "catch":
I'm not going to share the psychological techniques here in public. If you want to know how to get your ex back, you're going to have to click the button below you to get into the private area of this website.
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P.S. The no contact rule really does work, but you need a plan to go along with it. On it's own it is almost useless. Don't hesitate, join the Get Ex Back Club today. Time is ticking; the longer you wait, the more likely it is that your ex will end up with someone else.