How to make your ex miss you is something that many people ask me about. And it only makes sense. When you're hurting because your ex no longer wants to be with you and you're missing them like crazy, it only makes sense that you would want them to feel the exact same thing.
Still, I have to be honest with you. I can't help but wince whenever I'm asked this question. Let me tell you something -- I believe in love, and I'm a big fan of romance. I'm currently in a great relationship, and I want everyone to be as happy in this area as I am.
But I've been through this before. I've had the bad break up, and I know exactly what it feels like on your end. That feeling of hopelessness and of wasted time. The wanting to move on, but not being able to. Yup, I've been there, and I remember it so well that I actually feel that pain when I think back to it.
If you're like most people, then the reason that you're interested in making your ex miss you is probably either that you just want some kind of "balance" (i.e. revenge) by making them feel the hurt that you feel, or because you know that when someone misses you, that it means they care about you. If you could make your ex miss you and therefore care deeply about you, you could probably get them back, right?
Yes, some people want their ex to miss them for revenge purposes, and others just want to get their ex back.
Please, I hope you do not want your ex to miss you just to get even with them. This always backfires and won't work. You're only hurting yourself. If you're not interested in making things better with your ex and just want to get revenge, then you're better off just moving on. No matter what it takes. I know it's hard, but time is a great healer for everything.
If, on the other hand, you only want your ex to miss you because you know it is a key to getting them back, then I can give you some advice.
Have you heard of the no contact rule?
It seems obvious that if you are in constant contact with your ex, they can't very well miss you. That much is probably obvious to you. However, no contact alone is not enough to make your ex truly miss you in an emotional way.
Think about when you first got together. If you were apart from your ex in the beginning, they probably would have missed you, right? That's because they had a different picture of you and your relationship painted back then. The emotions that your ex felt in the beginning of your relationship were different then the emotions that your ex feels now.
You can probably still remember how different things were then. Could your ex have stood to be away from you when things were going great? Probably not.
So, your goal should be to change the way that your ex feels about you. If your ex feels a deeply embedded sense of longing and attraction for you, then they will naturally miss you -- and want to get back together.
But how do you change the way your ex currently feels for you? Well, that's the million dollar question, isn't it?
To change the way your ex feels about you and ultimately make your ex miss you, you must do a few things:
1) You have to understand the real reason that your ex no longer wants to be with you. Unfortunately, it's probably not what they told you. I'll help you with this at the end of this article.
2) After understanding your situation, you will need to follow a step by step "plan of action" to recreate the lost sense of attraction in your ex. I'll help you with this in a minute as well.
3) You need to get a clear head. Even with the perfect idea of what to do to make your ex want you again, you're not going to be able to pull it off while you are overly emotional. I can also help you with getting some techniques to make yourself feel better.
Once you've done these three things, you will be at the point where you can schedule a "date" with your ex. And it's at that moment that you'll be able to establish an emotional bond that will make your ex miss you and end up being the one that wants to get back together with YOU!
What you're going to have to do is create a new emotional experience with your ex. One that's so powerful that it can "reset" your relationship back to the way it used to be.
At this point, if you want to maximize the chances of getting your ex back, you need to invest in the success of your relationship. It will take a little bit of will power and commitment, but you can do this! I get emails of guys and girls with success stories regularly who have done just that.
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P.S. If you can make your ex think about you constantly, they will start to miss you. If you can make them miss you, they will end up "falling for you" all over again and you'll have them back. It's really that simple. I'll see you inside the Get Ex Back Club (click the button in the box above)