For those of you trying to get your ex to simply return your phone call, I truly feel for you. It can make you feel very badly, wondering if they got your messages, only to be crushed when yet another day passes and you fell asleep by the phone waiting for them to call.
It can be very frustrating, because returning a phone call doesn’t take that much effort, does it? And it can feel like that phone call, just that slight bit of contact, may be all you need to make you feel better… at least temporarily.
Well, take comfort in the fact that your ex is probably trying hard not to call you back. They may be trying to move on, and it hurts them to go back and forth. But I am a strong believer in love, and want to help you get that return phone call so you have a shot at winning your ex back. I’m going to share a technique that I share with my best friends… a technique that’s so powerful, its almost magic.
Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?
It may sound hard to believe, but there ARE words that will basically cast a SPELL and make your ex feel compelled to return your call.
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from friends, relatives, and online acquaintances just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together once and for all.
People are used to hearing canned responses when they need advice. You know what I mean… we’ve all got people in our life who will tell us “there is no magic solution, yada yada, just be yourself, yada yada.” While this may be true on some level – it’s also not very helpful to your immediate situation, and I WANT to help you. So I’m going to tell you EXACTLY what to say to certainly get that all-important call back.
If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call. Please DON’T make that mistake. Do your research FIRST.
What NOT to Say!
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.
Unfortunately, this is a critical mistake that most desperate ex-lovers make almost INSTINCTIVELY…
This EASILY avoidable mistake only puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.
Actually, the mistake I’m talking about falls into two separate categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like:
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches…
So, I won't go on and on... instead, I’ll tell you what DOES work.
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are:
Curiosity and Self Interest!
And here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work.
Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses both curiosity AND self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" is what he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.
But more importantly...
Please have an underlying strategy BEFORE you call.
Most of this advice I’ve given you was taken straight from the following website (with permission), and it’s there that you’ll find the greater detail you need on your overall strategy. There’s no way that my tiny website can hold the wealth of value you can find here:
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
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