"All's fair in love and war" goes the famous old quote. Getting your lover back is all about love, but with a few 'warlike' strategies, you can get lover back and truly end the fight for good.

I know that break ups can be very hard. Often, they can be the hardest time of your life, and I want you to know that I'm very sorry that you're going through it. But at the same time, I'm happy to let you know that you CAN get your lover back, and I'm going to reveal some powerful tools that you already have at your disposal that will help you in your quest to get back together.

In my first real true love, I actually stumbled upon the truth about break ups myself, almost completely on accident. After I had broken up with my lover, I went into 'desperation mode.' I was out of control; calling my girlfriend over and over, trying to convince her that we needed to be together at inappropriate (to say the least) times of the night, and all that jazz. You may be feeling like doing something similar.

However, what this ended up doing was driving my ex lover further and further away. I wanted my ex back, but it was obvious that my desperation was not working to my advantage.

I'll tell you how this made me recognize the powerful tools that I had at my disposal all along in a second, but first a quote from the great Albert Einstein:

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."

So I stopped everything I was doing, and attempted to move on with my life, even though on the inside my tender heart felt like it was literally breaking in two. And that's when I started to realize the awesome truth about love.

The most powerful weapon that we often don't realize that we have at our disposal during a break up is that true love is almost always mutual. If you care deeply for your lover, chances are very high that they feel the same way about you. Even if it doesn't seem like they do.

Then why would they resist getting back together with you, right? That's a valid question, and there's a very good answer.

When someone makes a decision to break up, it is just that. It's only a logical decision. But it's not a feeling, or a strong emotion. It's entirely possible (and common) for someone to want to break up, and these thoughts can often 'hide' true love.

To finish the story I started, once I stopped giving my ex lover good reasons to not want to be together, the love gradually started to resurface. I then used the other natural powerful advantages we have when trying to get our ex back to seal the deal, and love was mine again.

My point is, don't despair. I promise you that you can get your ex back. And you can learn about other powerful tools you should be using to your advantage below. Just click below where it says "CLICK ME!"